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They help themselves to men in the developing world, kidding themselves that it's a 'holiday romance' that has nothing to do with the money they spend.
Go to any Jamaican beach and you'll find handsome 'rent-a-dreads', who get by servicing Western women - lots from Britain.
For the first time in years, she truly believes she is desirable. The woman is white, in her late 50s; the man, black, 18 - and paid for his attentions.
The scene - from the controversial new French film, Heading South, which opened this weekend, starring Charlotte Rampling, makes us confront uncomfortable truths about sexuality in a globalised world, and the legacy of colonialism.
The definition of a sex tourist is an adult who travels in order to have legal consensual sexual relations with another adult, often for the exchange of money or presents.
We still assume that a sex tourist will be male - indeed many regard the relationship between beach boy and female tourist as harmless fun.
But as a new film highlights female sex tourism, Liz Hoggard asks who really pays the price An attractive woman sips a cocktail under a bamboo shade. A handsome young man approaches her and showers her with compliments: she is the most beautiful woman he has ever seen, he says.The women are called milk bottles by the men - partly because of their ultra-white skin, partly because they are seen as vessels waiting to be filled.Another myth the play explodes is that sex tourism is only perpetrated by white women.Ignorance and lack of concern about the abject poverty and lack of choice that characterises the men's lives leads the women to romanticise their actions.It is true that women sex tourists are still outnumbered by the legions of men who travel to Thailand and the Philippines for sex with prostitutes.