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I don’t have any suggestive pics or content on my profile.. Never mind the 3 date rule, you suddenly find yourself wondering if maybe a 3 text rule needs to be implemented before sex is brought up. It’s insulting and it’s a turnoff and when you’re dating online, it seems to be happening all the time. I hear that you want to feel respected and seen as a woman. Is talking about sex off the table until the first date? I get that you want to educate him about what really interests a woman. ____You haven’t even had your first date yet and he’s already asking you your favorite position. It’s nearly every single time you start a conversation with a prospective date. Still want to educate him on what turns a woman on?But when it comes to truly figuring out if you vibe with someone, things can get tricky.It makes sense that you'd want to send a confusing text straight to the group chat – you instantly have all of the receipts and none of the "well, you had to be there" nuances. Theresa Di Donato, Associate Professor of Psychology at Loyola University explains: When you screenshot a text, “you have the ability to replicate the conversation [you] just had, so your friends can see exactly, word for word, the chat that just took place between you and your partner.”At first, this seems foolproof.AKA, continually stressing over a new guy's emoji-less texting habits with your group chat might make them think there's a problem with him (even if he hasn't really done anything wrong).Of course, your BFFs can often see little warning signs in a relationship, like pointing out that you're the only one who initiates plans.I am a single woman who is on a couple of dating sites and I’m fed up with a trend! Before you think about his needs or what he needs to learn, where do you stand? However, my bias here is that a man who leads with talk about sex really isn’t interested in what you think. Do not continue to get to know someone who disrespects your limits. Here are some things you can say: Just because everyone is seemingly talking about sex right away doesn’t mean you need to.I chat with men online and within 2-3 sentences they turn it into sex!! He’s showing you who he is so believe him and move on. You get to decide what interests you, what you’re comfortable with, and what attracts you.
But if he's describing himself as an "entrepreneur" and refuses to get more detailed or refers to his job situation as "complicated" instead of being up front, that should be a red flag. Either he's seeing someone else and doesn't want to be spotted out with another woman in his hometown, he doesn't see a future with you and doesn't want you knowing where he lives just so he can keep his distance, or he's basically a hoarder and he doesn't want you to see the state his place is in.
"People tend to be most satisfied with a decision when they have fewer options i.e., less decision regret, less decision uncertainty," says Di Donato. It takes a really great friend (or few friends) to view the situation clearly so you don't accidentally blow it with a great person because you think their ellipses is loaded with hidden meanings.
If you're already unsure about if you like a guy or not, crowdsourcing all your BFFs' opinions will probably not help you. “Choosing those friends wisely is important if you’re thinking of disclosing something that could change their impressions of your partner or you, or your relationship,” says Dr. Ultimately, your true best friends should and will be there for you when you legitimately feel stuck in a relationship and need addvice.
Plus, you can't necessarily trust the feedback you're getting.
According to Di Donato, people see their world through specific attachment lenses, and so someone's interpretation of a text could stem from how secure they feel in their own relationship, and have nothing to do with you.