Dating people with kids advice
Oct 2014 I have been dating '' Mike'' for a few months.I'm a single parent and I live in an apartment and run a business owned by my ex.Mike thinks that I own the business and although I don't know how much money Mike has, he owns a glamorous home and he tells me that he is an entepenuer and he lives off his investments, so I don't want him to think I want to be with him for his lifestyle and fortune.I haven't been with anyone serious in a while, and being with Mike is exciting.But on the other, maybe I'm old fashioned and I don't want to waste my time with a many who isn't a traditional earner. I like Mike It sounds like neither of you has been completely honest with the other - you have both misrepresented yourselves, so I can't see this relationship going anywhere good from here.
I am so glad that you went down and looked at his divorce records !! I know you like him, and if men are charming, good looking, or you're so lonely that just to be with someone [anyone !
Tell him your financial situation honestly (maybe he's pursuing you mistakenly as another cash cow! Depending on how such conversations go, you can more realistically assess whether to stay or move on.
Isadora You guys are definitely wrong for each other, because you both expect the other one to bring in the money and afford an elevated lifestyle beyond your own means!
I get it's exciting but you have a child, and this person has truth/reality issue. You are already putting yourself at a disadvantage by acting like you don't deserve answers... anon Sorry to sound harsh, but since Mike's money seems to be what you find most appealing about him, it sounds like you'll need to move on to someone who can give you the ''glamorous lifestyle'' you are looking for.
anon If I were you, I'd be really wary of this guy.