Early dating advice for women
I once had a 30 year old woman buy me a copy of “The Multi-Orgasmic Man” for my birthday.
This will give you a significantly better sex life.
Dave knows his stuff when it comes to getting what you want in career, women, and life. And not just attract them and have a quick fling, but actually date them (if that’s what I wanted). (Note: These same lessons can apply to more mature women who are your age or even younger) But before we dive in, let’s touch on some of the reasons why you should try dating older women. She’ll Challenge You Nobody is perfect – and odds are, you do a lot of dumb things around women. Like leaving the toilet seat up at her place…acting awkward about the dinner bill…letting out nervous laughter a little too often…
Women who have an edge – who know what they want, and go for it. More often than not, these types of women have been older than me. When I was younger (18-21), I thought these types of women were out of my league. But in the last few years, I’ve come to see that these women are very attainable, even when you’re a young guy. But it wasn’t until I shifted my mindset – and altered some of my behaviors – that I started to attract more of these women than ever before… If you’ve ever fantasized about attracting and dating sexy older women, you’re in the right place.
Put simply, a needy person doesn’t feel good inside and then saddles the other person with the responsibility to make them feel better… whoops, “my battery died, sorry I didn’t call you back last night.” Nobody’s perfect. When you boil it all down, neediness is not some set of behaviors. When a person takes on the belief that another person is responsible for their happiness, their sense of well-being and their sense of self-esteem, then it’s guaranteed that they’re going to act needy as a result of that mindset.
(FYI, we have a whole chapter on this in our new book “He’s Not That Complicated: How to Crack a Man’s Romantic Code to Get the Relationship You Want“) Even the kindest, most well-meaning, most empathetic guy won’t be able to satisfy a woman who acts needy the majority of the time. I would be pretty surprised if you never had a needy guy around you. Making someone else responsible for your emotions is a key ingredient in creating a toxic relationship type dynamic, so it’s very important to guard against doing that (as well as recognize when others are doing that towards you).