Every teenagers little black book on sex and dating
I already had a lot of confidence back then and at least an average level of game, so I made out with (or just kissed on the lips) something like 25 women on first dates in a row. I don’t remember what they were exactly, but they were bad. My lay ratios tripled in less than two months (I think that’s the number; it was a long time ago now).
I got a lot of makeouts, but I wasn’t getting laid. It was also during this time that I found some women would have an extreme amount of ASD on the second date when I tried to have sex with them, even though they were clearly attracted to me.
(Interesting side note: many PUA haters and angry MGTOW’s are actually men who reached the beginner stage, but never stuck with any system long enough to achieve results, and have resided in the beginner stage for years and years.
Well, yeah, if I had to remain at the beginner stage for years on end, I’d be furious too.) The goal of the beginner is to The Intermediate The intermediate guy is someone who has been working his system for several months and is now getting results.
This is particularly true if you’re encountering the same problems over and over again.
The challenge is either with what you’re doing, the type of women you’re approaching, or both.
One notch above these guys are extroverted virgins who’ve never had sex, but have lots of female friends and have never learned how to get out of friend zone.
Reviewing my spreadsheets at the time, I was shocked to see that something like 95% of these ASD women were age 33 or over. Could something as simple as age make that big of a difference? I stopped messaging all women online who are age 33 or above, and holy shit, my lay ratios .Putting in the numbers starts to get to them, and when women don’t play ball the way the men expect, these men often get upset.You are an intermediate if some of the following conditions describe you: .If you’ve chosen online dating as your system, get this book. I was beginner for many months, messaging women, going out on dates, dealing with cancels and flakes, dealing with women ghosting me, getting turned down, and wasting a lot of time and money.If your system involves one-on-one dates / meetups, get this book. Being a beginner is the worst stage of these three stages, so you want to put in as much work as possible to get through this stage as fast as possible.